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Self-care & wellness

Rest, journaling, mindfulness and the mind-body connection.

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Couples & marriage

Perinatal Preparation

A well-intended phrase told to many mothers in celebration, but why then do feelings of pressure, guilt, even frustration arise? Expecting moms hear…

Nicoletta Whiteman, MA, LPC ·

Family & parenting

How to achieve a healthy work-life balance

As a self-employed therapist, I know that I cannot fill from an empty cup. It’s imperative to maintain habits that allow me to work and play well. It…

Dave Kemerer, MA, LPC ·

Mental health

Boundaries during the holiday season

Its that time of year again, New Hallothanksmas, aka Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New years. Although for many this time of year is exciting and an opportunity to live out past times and traditions with people you love. For man, this span of 3 ½ months is has an extra layer of tension. Questions like “Will my in-laws speak negatively of me if we decide to stay home this year for Christmas?” or “What if I can’t afford to get everyone that matters to me a gift and have to prioritize...” begin to swirl around in our minds, effectively taking away the peace that we should rightfully own this time of year.

Dave Kemerer, MA, LPC ·

Mental health

How to Find a Great Therapist

I used to attend a church that said “if this is your first time visiting, we ask that you give us three Sundays before you decide if it’s for you or…

Nicoletta Whiteman, MA, LPC ·

Faith & encouragement

Grief is for more than death

When you think of or look up a definition of ‘grief,’ it’s typically thought of as “deep sorrow, especially that caused by someone's death.” But it’s such a specific feeling isn’t it? And I don’t know about you, but I’ve felt it WAY more often than exclusively around death. How many different types of grief are you aware of besides death?

Rosslyn Kemerer ·

Mental health

Why your stories may be keeping you stuck

But You Don’t Understand!! As a counselor, I have many stories. Ones that I share when I see a whole bunch of the same story, manifested throughout…

Dave Kemerer, MA, LPC ·

Family & parenting

How therapy can improve your family

Family dynamics can be (and usually are) complex and challenging. Even healthy families have natural ups and downs. As we all grow and develop in…

Dave Kemerer, MA, LPC ·

Faith & encouragement

Grief Relief

3 part healing series for mind, body + spirit 3 Fridays in March, 17th, 24th and 31st from 11:00am - 12:30pm at The Space

Rosslyn Kemerer ·

Couples & marriage

What makes a good therapy session?

"Just like in any other profession, there are good therapists and poor ones, creative ones and lazy ones, good fits and bad fits. The same goes for clients! Some are actually willing to do the work and will see change as a result, while others just want to talk once a week and stay trapped in their comfort zones..."

Dave Kemerer, MA, LPC ·

Mental health

How to know if you’re making progress in therapy?

Whether you’re heading into your first therapy session or you’ve been in counseling for years, it’s important to have an awareness of if it’s actually WORKING. Are you able to pinpoint ways that you have actually grown or changed? What can you do today that you couldn’t do a year ago?

Nicoletta Whiteman, MA, LPC ·

Mental health

Help for grieving

I’m relatively new to big losses and understanding the journey of grief, but each time I experience it, I learn a little something. If you or someone you know is experiencing grief and loss, you might benefit from receiving or offering some of these suggestions and recognizing what NOT to do as well.

Rosslyn Kemerer ·

Mental health

Why is meditation so hard?

I always share with my clients who are new to meditation practice: meditation is simply concentration. We tend to attach all sorts of extra feelings, expectations and assumptions on top of that. When we naturally find it difficult to meditate in a certain way, we just say that we ‘can’t meditate.’

Rosslyn Kemerer ·

Faith & encouragement

Why do I feel burnt out?

Would you say that you have any reserves in your tank? Or are you just coasting from one weekend to the next? Feeling ‘burnt out’ is pretty much the norm. How can we extend the relief that we find in play/rest/downtime?

Dave Kemerer, MA, LPC ·

Couples & marriage

How to Interrupt the Pattern on Repetitive Arguments

You know what types of arguments or disagreements you and your partner have on a regular basis. You can almost see the storm brewing a mile away once it starts to play out (again), but it seems inevitable. It can leave you both feeling shutdown and hopeless. What do you do when your ingrained ‘differences in perspective’ lead to an all out thrown down fight? And even more so: what can you do when that argument is on repeat in your relationship?

Dave Kemerer, MA, LPC ·

Mental health

Self Care vs. Selfishness

How do we take care of ourselves if we continue to believe that choosing to make ourselves a priority is selfish? Let us help clear up some things. Usually when sharing the importance of choosing to invest in yourself, a comment response is “but isn’t that selfish?” This has us looking at what TRUE self-care is. Culture teaches us that it’s face masks and fancy vacations, when really, it’s anything that is life-giving to you.

Nicoletta Whiteman, MA, LPC ·

Nature & outdoors

How to prepare for autumn

Like it or hate it, fall and winter are coming to western Pennsylvania. Though I personally love this time of year and what’s to come, I recognize that it can feel difficult for many people. Seasonal depression tends to coincide with the ever decreasing daytime. Cold weather often causes people to spend more time indoors, resulting in feelings of isolation or boredom. Still others simply have negative connotations in relation to cold, hibernation time or the holiday season.

Dave Kemerer, MA, LPC ·

Faith & encouragement

How to make big decisions

When you reach a crossroads in life, how do you know what to do next? Read on for 5 concrete steps to help you navigate huge life decisions…

Rosslyn Kemerer ·

Self-care & wellness

Frequency of emotions: how to raise your vibration

If everything is frequency and we are experiencing a low vibration frequency within our body, the idea is that we can influence and shift that frequency by coming into contact with a higher frequency. The higher frequency could come from our own thoughts (i.e. meditation), music, movement..etc. Think about what types of things naturally raise your vibration or make you feel good.

Rosslyn Kemerer ·

Mental health

Journal Prompt Ideas

Sometimes you just need a little jumpstart with concrete ideas! Lack of direction is one of the main reasons that a journaling practice fails.

Rosslyn Kemerer ·

Mental health

How and why to create a journal jar

If you're working toward an overall energy or attitude, it's nice to get a big jar or container and really give it time to fill up. Other times, smaller jars might fill up in a few weeks or a month if you'd like to continue to refine or start fresh.

Rosslyn Kemerer ·

Nature & outdoors

How to use nature to combat stress

For much of our lives and our culture, we have completely lost our connection with nature. It’s why nature-based experiential therapy is so important to me. Because it gets us outside of our micro-managed, polished and climate-controlled lives and back to our literal roots. I like to think about the way that animals within nature live their lives. We can learn a lot from studying and observing the natural world around us. Here are a few lessons we might take from nature:

Dave Kemerer, MA, LPC ·

Faith & encouragement

Active v.s. Passive Self Care

Explore the difference between active and passive self-care and how both support emotional health. Learn practical ways to restore balance and build resilience with help from True North Vitality.

Dave Kemerer, MA, LPC ·

Mental health

Mental Health & Natural Immunity

But what if there’s more to the phenomenon of ‘getting sick?’ Why do some people rarely seem to get ill or catch germs? And why is it that illness is exacerbated by other stressors? Have you ever thought about the emotional and spiritual implications of dis-ease, individually and collectively?

Rosslyn Kemerer ·

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